Connection between the animals are subsequently to people

I only gave a lecture about connecting, bonding, family and so on. I described what I was doing all these years. Family connection, then friends, then with your other loved ones, your animals. Even a farmer commits and adheres to / on his cattle. I recognize from my idiosyncratic roots, Zimbabwe where people and animals mainly in rural areas are highly interconnected.

Connection between the animals are subsequently to people

Sometimes cows or donkeys seen when they help people? They chat with each other, looking at each other and leave food behind each other and feed the young. As a child I helped my parents with the cattle, together with my brothers and sister. When I look back, I am particularly impressed with how we worked with neighborhood boys and girls. They also helped parents during planting, sowing and harvesting, and cattle. It happened a lot and it was really obvious that every child just had a take. Each task connected us also with the cattle we were doing.

I remember mostly the names we give to the cows. Each cow had a name that suited his character. From the moment it is a calf, the children and parents feel what it is. I write in the present tense because it still happened. I often get messages from my brother with the pictures of the remaining cattle.

Because names, creates a connection between man and animal, by regularity we were just connected.
Regularity and compound

From my parents I learned to get up very early. My parents had cows, goats, shelves, chickens, turkeys, dogs and cats. There was great diversity in.

They were so many and yet we knew one on which it was and what it did and luster. Which eggs when it comes. We lived with season.

We ate seasonal vegetables, we were dependent on the moon. We slept early because it was faster dark. My mother always said “Basa Mangwanani” and this means better start working early, then you can still enjoy your day, because do you? it’s already evening.

This is what I still do, I remember when I worked at the office in Rotterdam and Schiedam I could often ask my colleagues if they had wet the bed;). So early was ik.Ik h ad been made long coffee and radio turned on to create a fun atmosphere connection to the work floor. I see actually why I did it.


Thanks for reading my blog. So I asked in February to give a lecture during the nine-month exhibition about what I actually do. This I told such and eventually it went #Familybonding. I continue with my blog when my kids are relax.

Dear greetings
Melissa Budding
Living in the Netherlands since 1996


Vulnerable people are truly lovers

People who easily show their love, who doesn’t keep it inside are the best parents. If you calculate the amount of love you give or distribute among st your children, then the chance is higher that you cannot fully or truly love. Be that person who say it out when you feel it. Especially to your children because they need to learn to love in the future.
Translation to this is, never be ashamed to show your feelings to anyone especially when those feelings are genuine.

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Children need to know vulnerability not toughness, because no one likes tough people. Being vulnerable is even more difficult than being tough.
Being vulnerable is therefore stronger, because some people may end up mistaken vulnerable for weakness and abuse that. So be careful with those people who show true love, because they are not easy to break.

What is falling in love

What is #love? In one of our videos we touched love in different ways. I remember one of guests explaining it as it is and should probably be.
We all have certain people we are attracted to and whom we do attract. These people are either those who may fulfill what we lack in our lives. This depends on how long and how much experience you have with these people.
However there are those particular people who are #attractive from outside, depending on what you would call attractive and the society influences you on what it means to be attractive, therefore this can be very personal for every individual. You tend to feel attracted and are prepared to get to know them better because there is this #infactuation #feeling troubling you, to want to be around those people and maybe even do something intimacy with them. You may not know whether these feelings are strong enough to take the first step or not at all. Or whether its mutual. Whether you are a woman or a man, it now depends on how you were raised culturally. In some parts of the world a woman would give signs to the man and wait until he takes the first step. Nowadays it’s very common that a man lays back and wait until the #woman does the work. It all depends really on how the society influences you again. But in the world where human are not too conditioned, where men and #women still feel naturally, where the instincts are still strong, people know immediately that someone is feeling attracted to them. These people are those who still are organic. Like explained in one of my videos, about #organic #lifestyle. #People who who choose to live a natural lifestyle.
The most exciting way is when you feel attracted to someone you have seen coming into your life without both of you expecting that anything may turn to be chemistry. Then the #chemistry become love,……to be continued. Because we all want to know how #teenagers feel and handle this. A group of teenagers in The Netherlands asked me to write this piece after I had a long conversation about how they are now falling in love and I was telling them my own experience. They felt fascinated by the way I was telling them already.

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